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In October remember to…

Goal for the Month:  
Find the patience to make cherished memories out of more moments this month

Daily Reflection

TODAY, I pause for my habit to BE PATIENT AND LISTEN

Health Focus

Safety in all things

Color Cue
Slow-Down Lavender

Having known about and lived through the twelve-month cycle of the 12 Unity Habits for 30 years now, I welcome October as the month to rest my weary soul. I see peaceful joy in the breathtakingly colorful autumn nature show outside my home and office. I love the sense of calm and quiet appreciation of beauty that I feel under the influence of “Be Patient and Listen.”

This month’s celebration color is Slow-down LAVENDER. Whenever I see the color LAVENDER, I feel quieter, more tuned to listening, and more connected to those who pass through my day. Lavender encourages calmness and tranquility of mind and is useful for both self-reflection and invoking a relaxed, meditative state.

Think about being patient and listening as safety measures when you are driving. The accident statistics attributed to “road rage” are sobering. Driving is a time to remember something a friend of mine once said, “Help everyone that you can, and if you cannot help them, at least don’t hurt them.”  Drive carefully this month, with caring and respect for others on the road with you.

From October 1st - The quality of patience reflects love of self and love of others. Without patience, we miss so much of life while hurrying on to the next thing. Without patience, we miss the beauty of other people.

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Student created Bulletin Board for October, “Be Patient and Listen,” at South Hills Middle School in Pittsburgh, PA.  If you could see the color, it is “Slow-down Lavender,” to enhance our memory to practice be patient and listen.

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